Dare to Lead

Brené Brown

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About this book

New York Times Bestseller

Brené Brown, who has inspired millions to dare greatly, rise strong, and brave the wilderness, now tackles the critical question of effective leadership. Through new research with leaders, change-makers, and culture shifters, Brown reveals that leadership isn't about power or status, but about recognizing potential in people and ideas, and having the courage to develop it.

Dare to Lead challenges us to embrace vulnerability, stay curious, and share power, rather than hoard it. In a world defined by scarcity, fear, and uncertainty, Brown teaches us how to cultivate uniquely human skills like empathy, connection, and courage.

Drawing on two decades of research, Brown debunks the myth that daring leadership can't be taught. She unveils four skill sets that are 100% teachable, observable, and measurable, requiring brave work, tough conversations, and wholehearted participation.

Whether you're a long-time fan or new to Brené Brown's work, Dare to Lead is an invitation to step up, embrace brave leadership, and cultivate a culture of courage. Because choosing courage over comfort isn't always easy, but it's always worth it.

Summary of Key Ideas

  • Embrace Vulnerability

    Vulnerability as Courage: Brown challenges the conventional view of vulnerability as weakness, reframing it as the foundation of courage. Daring leaders embrace vulnerability by showing up authentically, even when there's a risk of failure or criticism. This involves sharing ideas, asking tough questions, and giving and receiving feedback with openness. By being vulnerable, leaders foster trust and create a safe environment where team members feel comfortable taking risks and innovating.

  • Operationalize Values

    Living into Your Values: Identifying and operationalizing your core values is crucial for authentic leadership. It's not enough to simply list values; daring leaders must translate them into behaviors. This involves being clear about what each value looks like in action and holding yourself and others accountable for living up to those standards. When leaders align their actions with their values, they build trust and inspire others to do the same.

  • Build Trust with BRAVING

    BRAVING Trust: Brown introduces the BRAVING framework as a model for building trust. BRAVING stands for Boundaries, Reliability, Accountability, Vault, Integrity, Non-judgment, and Generosity. Each element is essential for creating and maintaining trusting relationships. Leaders who embody these qualities cultivate a culture of psychological safety where team members feel safe to be vulnerable, take risks, and share ideas.

  • Rumble with Difficulties

    Rumbling with Vulnerability: "Rumbling" refers to engaging in difficult conversations with courage and empathy. Daring leaders don't shy away from tough topics; instead, they approach them with curiosity and a willingness to listen. This involves staying grounded in your values, seeking to understand different perspectives, and being open to changing your own views. Effective rumbling fosters clarity, strengthens relationships, and drives positive change.

  • Rise from Setbacks

    Learning to Rise: Brown’s "Rising Strong" process is about learning from setbacks and failures. It involves recognizing the emotions associated with failure, getting curious about the stories we tell ourselves about what happened, and rewriting those stories to be more compassionate and empowering. Daring leaders use failures as opportunities for growth and development, both for themselves and their teams.

  • Foster Empathy and Connection

    Leading with Empathy and Connection: Connection and empathy are vital for daring leadership. Leaders need to connect with team members on a human level, understand their perspectives, and show genuine care and concern. Empathy involves recognizing and validating others' emotions, even when you don't agree with their viewpoints. By fostering connection and empathy, leaders create a sense of belonging and inspire greater collaboration and commitment.

  • Give and Receive Feedback

    Daring to Give and Receive Feedback: Constructive feedback is essential for growth and improvement, but it can be difficult to give and receive. Daring leaders approach feedback with honesty, clarity, and a genuine desire to help others develop. When giving feedback, it's important to focus on specific behaviors and their impact, rather than making personal judgments. When receiving feedback, it's important to listen openly, ask clarifying questions, and resist the urge to become defensive.

  • Reject Perfectionism

    Challenging the Myth of Perfectionism: Perfectionism is a self-defeating mindset that prevents people from taking risks and embracing vulnerability. Daring leaders challenge the myth of perfectionism by promoting a culture of self-compassion and acceptance. This involves recognizing that mistakes are inevitable, learning from them, and moving forward with resilience. By rejecting perfectionism, leaders create space for innovation and creativity.

Chapter Recap

Introduction: Brave Leaders and Courage CulturesBrené Brown opens by sharing her deeply personal and somewhat "selfish" goal for the book: to distill two decades of research and organizational experiences into a practical, actionable guide for daring leaders. This ambition stems from her own transition from a research professor to a CEO, a role t
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Brené Brown

Main Quotes

"Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it's having the courage to show up and be seen when we can't control the outcome."

"Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind."

"You can't get to courage without rumbling with vulnerability. Embrace the suck."

"Self-awareness and self-love matter. Who we are is how we lead."

"Courage is contagious."

"Daring leaders work from values, not feelings."

"Empathy is not a finite resource."

"We desperately need more leaders who are committed to courageous, wholehearted leadership and who are self-aware enough to lead from their hearts, rather than unhealed hurt."

"Choose courage over comfort."

"Integrity is choosing courage over comfort; it’s choosing what is right over what is fun, fast, or easy; and it’s choosing to practice our values rather than simply professing them."

Who Should Read This Book

Current leaders and managers in various industries

Aspiring leaders seeking personal and professional growth

Entrepreneurs and business owners

Individuals interested in improving their communication and relationship-building skills

Organizational development professionals

Educators and trainers

Individuals seeking to cultivate more courageous and vulnerable workplaces

Anyone interested in Brené Brown's research on vulnerability, courage, and leadership

Mental health and wellness practitioners

Social workers

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